Why? What is this question?
Help others? Get Help from Other?
Just Read the below.....
There are many things in this world, I can’t really explain all things but I can tell you some of my life experience in order to understand this world better. I am doing my part time MBA in Anna University and my study center is MIT. I have to take a long walk to reach my class, one Saturday I was walking from the main gate to my class I was listening to music and moving, one scooter crossed me it was just a casual cross. I hope he was a professor in that college. He went very long suddenly he turned and came towards me I thought he has missed something and heading back to take that, but that was not the case. He just stopped before me and asked me that he will give him a ride for the other gate. I was shocked I don’t know what to do but my destination is not the other gate so I said thanks uncle but I have to go this way. He happily said no problem and went on his way may be this seems to be a small action but it created lot of reaction in me.
On the same day I am back on my way to my house in a Bus. It was quite crowded, thank god I got a seat it was too stuffy Hope you can understand the state. In Chennai by default the last row of seats are for women, I was before that row my seat was safe and secure but that is not the case for the person who sat in the last row he was crippled and he is holding all his helping sticks any one can understand he is a crippled but not the women who came in to the bus in the next stop. For the reason he is a male she asked him to give him that place. I was shocked before I react there was a another voice which said brother come here, that was a another teen aged girl I was surprised by her action. She gave her seat that was a solo seat next to steps no one can question him now even though he hesitated at the beginning he finally accepted the proposal she was very happy the man too I hope the lady will regret for this.
My understanding is if someone (Strangers) offers you something do we want to accept that without any hesitation or first reciprocate it and then accept that or completely refuse it. My answer would be analysis first If something really helps you like the cripple’s case you accept it, by doing this the other person will get a feeling that I have done a very great job and gets satisfied and go home happy. In my case I can’t accept that but what I have did is said thanks first and then said I can’t come with you and explained him the reason. Even though I have declined his offer he is still happy why because I have appreciated his helping tendency.
A simple happening can teach you many thing in your life just stay focused and act wisely. Never miss a opportunity to help other and accept the help from others when it is really needed. So let us bring our nation in a path of Glory.
S Ramachandran MCA
July 18, 2009
July 12, 2009
Travel blogging
Oh my god i cant believe this i am blogging with my mobile. Ok there are another 3 hours in my travel i will post as many as possible let me try. There are many things can happen in a single day that what happened to me. I went to my native place had a good chat with my mom and dad:) , then made a visit to my farm, paddY is growing there. Then made a visit to my new home.
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